There are days when your brain feels like a browser with 47 tabs open—and one of them is playing music you can’t find. You start one task, get distracted by another, and suddenly you’re reorganizing socks instead of finishing your report. Sound familiar?
Now, imagine giving yourself permission to do… nothing. Yep, absolutely nothing productive. Not even folding your clean laundry (that’s been living on the chair for a week anyway). I’m talking about intentional “meh” days—scheduled laziness with a purpose.
Before you assume I’ve completely abandoned the productivity ship and floated off on a hammock of apathy, hear me out. Because as weird as it sounds, integrating deliberate do-nothing moments into your schedule can actually make you more productive. Wild.
🛋️Goodbye Guilt, Hello Gains
Intentional “meh” days aren’t about being lazy—they’re about being strategic with your rest. It’s like charging your phone before it hits 1%.
Why You Need a Meh Day (Yes, You)
If you feel tired but wired, juggling too many to-dos, and drowning in digital meetings and tomato-timed productivity hacks (looking at you Pomodoro Technique), chances are your brain needs a break.
Here’s what happens when you DON’T take intentional rest:
- Your to-do list becomes a guilt pile.
- You feel overwhelmed by tiny things (like someone eating the last cookie… HOW DARE THEY).
- Creativity goes into hiding, like a cat during vacuuming.
And here’s what happens with strategic rest:
- More focus on workdays.
- Less guilt during breaks—because they’re planned.
- Improved creative thinking (turns out your brain likes wandering sometimes).
The Science-y Stuff
Psychologists call this “ultradian rhythm” maintenance. Basically, your brain functions in 90-minute work cycles followed by natural dips in alertness. If you power through those dips without resting—even just a walk or zone-out session—you’ll burn out faster than a microwave popcorn bag left unattended.
Plus, neuroscience shows that during idle periods, something called the default mode network in our brain switches on. That’s the part responsible for big-picture ideas, emotional processing, and creative insights.
Let me translate: letting your mind wander is low-key genius training. So guilt-free resting? That’s just you getting smarter.
How to Plan a Proper “Meh” Day
Okay, okay. But how do you actually plan a lazy day that doesn’t devolve into a 5-hour TikTok spiral or a guilt-ridden binge of old emails?
Here’s my 5-step recipe:
1. Put the Meh Day on Your Calendar
Yep, actually schedule it. Mark it as “intentional reboot day” or “casserole-level chill zone.” Choose a weekday if you can—because relying on weekends alone for rest is like only watering your plants after they’ve wilted.
📅Surprise Bonus
Scheduling rest actually reduces the fear of getting behind—because you gave yourself a buffer on purpose.
2. No High-Expectations Allowed
This is key. The moment you turn your “me day” into a hyper-planned, self-improvement checklist-palooza, you’ve missed the point. Sure, stretch if you feel like it. But if “meh” means pajama pants and eating cereal straight from the box? You’re winning.
3. Keep Your Hands Busy (If You Want)
Idle doesn’t always mean still. Doodle. Rearrange your bookshelf for the 7th time. Knit. Cook something mildly chaotic. Or—hear me out—color-code your Google Calendar just because it’s oddly satisfying (see: Calendar Cramming).
4. Use “Play” to Trick Your Brain Back into Motion
Some of my favorite lazy-day activities feel relaxing and productive at the same time. Like mindfully watering my plants (no rush, just slow Jurassic Park vibes), or doing a micro-declutter sprint like this one: The 20-Minute Whole-House Speed Sweep.
5. Set a Gentle Restart Rule
At the end of your meh day, don’t punish yourself. Instead, use a soft reentry ritual. For me, that means:
But Max, Isn’t This Just Procrastinating With Better Branding?
Excellent question, imaginary sass master!
The big difference is intent. Strategic laziness honors the truth that you’re not a productivity machine with 24/7 uptime. You’ll hustle better when you’re not running on empty.
Think of it like this:
Stop glorifying 'busy.' It's like driving fast on empty—you'll impress nobody when you break down.
Me, probably around 3 PM on a 'meh' day
There’s a reason athletes schedule rest days. Muscles need downtime to rebuild. Your brain’s a muscle too (okay fine, technically it’s an organ, but don’t ruin my metaphor, nerds).
What a Meh Day Looks Like (Spoiler: It’s Glorious)
Here’s a real snapshot from one of my recent meh days:
- Woke up late, no alarm clock beeping like a car theft attempt
- Curled up with a podcast and one of my old cookbooks (which I finally organized—thank you Declutter Your Bookshelves)
- Had an unreasonably long lunch involving toasted mozzarella and naps
- Did a puzzle like a dramatic grandma from a TV movie
Magically, the next day? I got more done in four hours than I had the whole week before.
How to Tell You’re Overdue for a Lazy Day
If more than three of these sound familiar, schedule your “meh” fest immediately:
- You reread the same sentence four times and still have no idea what it said
- You’re snacking even though you just ate
- Your to-do list has 30 things and 12 of them are starred
- Your motivation is hiding behind Netflix and snack crumbs
- Your last break was accidentally just… scrolling social media
(Pro tip: If the only thing holding you together is coffee, it’s time for a fibrous cozy day off—after reading Sustainable Swaps for Your Morning Coffee Habit, of course.)
Ready to Try It?
Consider this your official permission slip to take a day off—not because you earned it, but because you function better when you’re not hanging by a thread.
Start small. Schedule a half-meh day this week. Declutter your mind, your to-do list, maybe even your pants drawer… or don’t. That’s the beauty of it.
Just know that choosing rest isn’t weakness. It’s a productivity power move dressed in sweatpants.
If you try this, I’d love to hear about it over on our Instagram. What’s your favorite way to meh?
🧘Your Challenge: Plan One Meh Day This Month
Block off a half or whole day with no obligations. No productivity guilt. No dopamine-hunting through chores. Just one cozy, calm, cat-video-watching day for you.